Grief requires of us that we know what time we're in. And the great enemy of grief is hope. The basic proposition of hope is: you hope for something that ain't. You don't hope for something that is. It's always future oriented, which means, hope is inherently intolerable of the present. The present is never good enough. Our time requires of us to be hope free. To burn through the false choice between hopeful and hopeless … it's the same con job. We don't require hope to proceed. We require grief to proceed.